A British mother is outraged after council chiefs removed her deceased son’s star-shaped headstone following a complaint from another family who claimed it wasn’t “in keeping” with the rest of the cemetery.




Max Corbett-Gardener was just 4 years old when he passed away after complications from his severe epilepsy. His mother, Jo Corbett-Weeks, 42, saved up £4,580 to design a specially-made headstone featuring a teddy bear holding a star inscribed with a tribute to her son, the Daily Mail reports.

The heartfelt memorial was erected on Max’s grave to commemorate what would have been the boy’s seventh birthday on May 31. But three days later, the headstone was removed from Great Malvern Cemetery by council chiefs in Worcestershire.

“It would have been Max’s seventh birthday on the Sunday, and this was like a birthday present to him from me,” Corbett-Weeks, who has two other children ages 16 and 5, told BBC. “I chose a star-shaped stone because I wanted something suitable for Max – something personal.

“This stone is just so perfect for my poor little chap,” she added.

A family had complained to the Malvern Town Council that the headstone was not “in keeping” with the rest of the cemetery. Corbett-Weeks says the stone was then removed without her knowledge or consent and she is demanding that it be reinstated.

“I was totally unaware this was going on. The council did not contact me and it was the stonemason who told me he’d been ordered to remove it,” Corbett-Weeks explained. “I feel upset, distressed and angry. We have been through so much as a family. I could understand if the grave was uncared for or unsightly, but it isn’t.




“The headstone meant a lot to me and the family but now we are fighting to have it put back,” she said. “It’s a horrible situation. We just want to have somewhere to grieve.”

The memorial was placed in the adult area of the cemetery, where Corbett-Weeks had her son buried so that he could be close to other family members.

The council said that if the application for the stone had been received within the usual time frame, they would not have given the stonemason permission to install it in the first place. They added that had the star-shaped headstone been installed at the children’s area of the cemetery, it would have been allowed.

“We have a conformity of shapes in our lawn cemetery. We were contacted by people who objected to the shape,” a Malvern Town Council spokesman explained to BBC. “The longer it stayed up, the harder the process would have been.

“It was a very difficult decision to remove it but one we had to make straight away,” the spokesman said.

The council added that the complaint was not so much about the shape of the headstone as it was about following protocol.

‘It wasn’t necessarily an objection to the shape but why we appeared to be applying one rule to one family and other rules to another,” the spokesman continued. “The stonemason in this situation did not have permission to put the stone up – and the stone is not in keeping with the graves in that area.

“By not following the correct process he has caused considerable distress to both families,” the spokesman concluded.

The council is arranging a meeting with Corbett-Weeks to discuss a new design for her son’s headstone.




7 COMMENTS

  1. Too many OCD peoplw uot there, what is wrong with a different shaped headstone, shows someone is not a sheep and is willing to show a difference. Wake up council and relax the out dated rules. This is the twenty first centry.

  2. What is wrong with the shape
    A star
    Don’t know why cannot see anything wrong with it, it’s a 4 year old little boys grave / resting place
    What is this world coming to
    It’s a lovely tribute to a great little fellow.

  3. Conformity!!Protocol!! How about compassion! Malvern C Council!!! After what this family have been through!

    Conformity!! protocol!! How about Compassion!! MALVERN TOWN COUNCIL!! After what this family has been through!!

  4. The council and the so called people that complained are totally sick in the head for even thinking of removing this beautiful headstone, it should be put back , I would love to see headstones like that at my cemetery no matter where it is children’s or adults sections, anyway a cemetery should be a place of rest at any part and if you want your child next to other adult family members there shouldn’t be a problem, get it back immediately you poor excuse of councillors,and for the complainers what if it was your child you sick individuals, why don’t you look after your own affairs and keep out of others

  5. Shame on the the idiots that complained. That is just overboard. Who cares what shape it is and if it’s with the adult area. Karma will get you with your selfish inconsiderate ways. Also shame on the council that had it removed without contacting the family. No way could a decent and normal human do this to anyone. Shame shame on you all.

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